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	<title>Comments on: Confessions of a Gifted Ex-Child</title>
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		<title>By: picnic food Great Valley</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 20:44:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A roommate questioned us all where would be able to acquire superior quality  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.companypicnicexperts.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;corporate event planning&lt;/a&gt;  in Norristown New Brunswick NJ.</description>
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		<title>By: Dean</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 10:07:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. This essay describes my experience exactly. Starting in elementary school I was placed a year ahead, and allowed to teach myself in Math and Science. Early on I concluded that my abilities were almost entirely mindset-based. That didn&#039;t prevent me from trying to live up to the gifted label. I learned to get by on as little work as possible, so that I could make everything look effortless and thereby live up to my reputation. By the time I entered college I started to buy my own deception, and had a hard time investing effort anymore...

I was also troubled by the use of the word &#039;genius&#039; in my high school. It was used to mark someone as different, in some inexplicable way. By using and repeating the word, the speakers built a consensus that the &#039;genius&#039; had something different within them, something that was impossible to understand. At the same time they were denying themselves the faculties of &#039;genius.&#039; I wanted to yell at them that they were no different, and contained all the same potential. I didn&#039;t know how to do this without offending or seeming pretentious.

One other doubt stopped me. How is anyone to know the experiences of another? It is easy to assume that everyone has it just as easy as yourself, and devalue the effort that they expend. This would be a kind of &#039;grey privilege,&#039; if you will. Though there no way to know for certain, I&#039;m not going to discount the theory that gift is hard work. At least one genius seems to agree:

&quot;It&#039;s not that I&#039;m so smart, it&#039;s just that I stay with problems longer.&quot; — Albert Einstein</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. This essay describes my experience exactly. Starting in elementary school I was placed a year ahead, and allowed to teach myself in Math and Science. Early on I concluded that my abilities were almost entirely mindset-based. That didn&#8217;t prevent me from trying to live up to the gifted label. I learned to get by on as little work as possible, so that I could make everything look effortless and thereby live up to my reputation. By the time I entered college I started to buy my own deception, and had a hard time investing effort anymore&#8230;</p>
<p>I was also troubled by the use of the word &#8216;genius&#8217; in my high school. It was used to mark someone as different, in some inexplicable way. By using and repeating the word, the speakers built a consensus that the &#8216;genius&#8217; had something different within them, something that was impossible to understand. At the same time they were denying themselves the faculties of &#8216;genius.&#8217; I wanted to yell at them that they were no different, and contained all the same potential. I didn&#8217;t know how to do this without offending or seeming pretentious.</p>
<p>One other doubt stopped me. How is anyone to know the experiences of another? It is easy to assume that everyone has it just as easy as yourself, and devalue the effort that they expend. This would be a kind of &#8216;grey privilege,&#8217; if you will. Though there no way to know for certain, I&#8217;m not going to discount the theory that gift is hard work. At least one genius seems to agree:</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s not that I&#8217;m so smart, it&#8217;s just that I stay with problems longer.&#8221; — Albert Einstein</p>
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		<title>By: Susie</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 22:01:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi &quot;Almost-Katey!&quot; Interesting article. I remember that gifted thing in school. At my school it was called &quot;GATE.&quot; I had a friend in it. I didn&#039;t do that well in elementary school. But I remember being a bit jealous that my friend was in it and I wasn&#039;t.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi &#8220;Almost-Katey!&#8221; Interesting article. I remember that gifted thing in school. At my school it was called &#8220;GATE.&#8221; I had a friend in it. I didn&#8217;t do that well in elementary school. But I remember being a bit jealous that my friend was in it and I wasn&#8217;t.</p>
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